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12 Negative Thoughts To Let Go Before Your Next Birthday

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Your birthday is approaching and you still think about different problems? What if you change your thoughts this time and experience the best birthday ever? According to psychologists, many people during their birthday, tend to think more about their failures than achievements. But in fact, a birthday should be imagined as a new day, a […]

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Your birthday is approaching and you still think about different problems? What if you change your thoughts this time and experience the best birthday ever?
According to psychologists, many people during their birthday, tend to think more about their failures than achievements.
But in fact, a birthday should be imagined as a new day, a new joy and a new hope!
Below you can find some things you should let go before your next birthday.

Which Are 12 Negative Thoughts To Let Go Before Your Next Birthday?

1. LET GO OF ANXIETIES ABOUT THE FUTURE

Buddha said it perfectly “Concentrate the mind on the present moment.” Control what you can and seek a happy future.

2. LET GO OF MAKING EXCUSES

We all engage in excuse-making once in a while, and we all need to let go of this behavior.

3. LET GO OF THINKING “IT’S TOO LATE…”

It’s never too late. Plan and work hard at what you enjoy. Forget about the time.

4. LET GO OF THE FEAR OF SPEAKING YOUR MIND

Be upfront, honest, and polite. When you combine the three, you’ll have no troubles speaking your mind.

5. LET GO OF YOUR FINANCIAL WORRIES

We all need some cash to live. If you’ve got an income, a roof, and some food – you’re doing alright. Don’t let money dictate your life.

6. LET GO OF BEING WHO “THEY” WANT YOU TO BE

“They” don’t matter. You matter. Forget everyone else’s expectations.

7. LET GO OF YOUR PAST MISTAKES

You can’t move forward with your mind taking you backward. Learn from your “Oops!” and move on.

8. LET GO OF TRYING TO CHANGE PEOPLE

Making a difference is one thing – and it’s a noble pursuit! But get over trying to change someone who shows no interest or effort.

9. LET GO OF LAZINESS

Procrastination + Laziness = Failure.

10. LET GO OF LIFE’S INEVITABLE UNFAIRNESS

The ole’ adage “Life isn’t fair” has been repeated quintillion-plus times. You’re right – it’s not fair. What are you doing about it?

11. LET GO OF WHAT OTHERS THINK ABOUT YOU

As with everything else on this list, this can be hard to do. But living your life to the fullest requires not giving a damn about others’ ignorance.

12. LET GO OF ANYTHING THAT DOESN’T MAKE YOU HAPPIER OR BETTER

This pretty much sums it up. If you’re not a better or happier person because of something you’re holding onto, let go.

Moment-to-moment awareness, i.e. mindfulness, and self-compassion can help you overcome any internal struggle. Remember your strength. Realize that letting something go can be hard, but as long as you’re moving forward, you are doing just fine!

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