. Sharing your marriage tips to someone else is totally normal. But giving private details about your partner, isn’t really fair. According to psychologists, around 90 % of couples love to talk to their friends about s*x life or fights. Some things are meant to be secret, and it is unhealthy to share them to […]
Sharing your marriage tips to someone else is totally normal. But giving private details about your partner, isn’t really fair.
According to psychologists, around 90 % of couples love to talk to their friends about s*x life or fights.
Some things are meant to be secret, and it is unhealthy to share them to someone else.
Below we are going to share some things you should keep secret about your marriage.
1. MONEY PROBLEMS
Nothing can put pressure on a marriage faster than money problems. Most people don’t want to admit that they’re having money problems. Even though it might be tempting to complain about financial issues to your friends, try to keep such matters to yourself. You and your spouse can work out a financial plan without having other people inject their opinions on your financial situation. While you might want to vent to your friends about money problems, this can cause more issues than it solves. Terri Orbuch, Ph.D., says that talking to your spouse about money issues is the best way to release related tensions. Set aside “neutral time” to talk about money problems, rather than setting aside “friend time” and discussing something that should remain confidential in your marriage.
Television and movies make it seem like everyone talks about their s*x life with their friends. The truth is, this is a marriage secret that should definitely be kept between you and your spouse. Again, this is an issue of boundaries. You want to make sure your spouse feels safe sharing all levels of intimacy with you. You never know if the things you tell your friends will get back around to your spouse. If so, this can cause a lot more issues than you might have anticipated. Don’t give in to the temptation to complain or brag about your s*x life to your friends. If you and your spouse are facing issues in your s*x life, Laurie Wilson, a certified s*x therapist, suggests seeing a counselor for help. S*x therapy can be especially helpful, as it is a form of talk therapy that can help couples navigate problems in their s*x lives.
If you’re in a relationship that your family might not approved of, there’s no reason to fuel the fire by sharing how your spouse really feels about them. The same goes for your friends. In a perfect world, everyone would get along with your spouse. But with different personalities clashing from time to time, it’s just not realistic that everyone will “just get along.” If your partner and one of your friends generally don’t see eye to eye, you probably don’t want to tell your friend what your partner said in confidence about them. The same also goes for keeping quiet about what your friends and family think of them. There’s only going to be unnecessary drama when that happens.
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