. The impact of attraction in a relationship is enormous. Attraction makes you love someone passionately by giving as much as you can from yourself. But what if your partner doesn’t desire you the same way you do? That’s when the feelings of frustration or sadness appear and makes you believe that your partner doesn’t […]
The impact of attraction in a relationship is enormous. Attraction makes you love someone passionately by giving as much as you can from yourself.
But what if your partner doesn’t desire you the same way you do?
That’s when the feelings of frustration or sadness appear and makes you believe that your partner doesn’t want you.
It’s totally normal if you don’t have the same attraction level at some stages of the life, but if you continuously refuse your partner even if he / she wants you then the problems can appear.
Scroll down to see which are some signs your partner isn’t attracted to you.
You both get caught into your routine and you begin putting up with each other’s presence rather than appreciating it. Romantic date nights are a thing of the past, they no longer seem to be interested in Netflix and chill sessions with your favorite show, and s*x is a long-forgotten fantasy.
The way to fix this is to take initiative and plan date nights, trips, cinema visits or even getting more creative in bed – those are all things you can do to spark up your SO’s interest again and make them feel like you haven’t left the honeymoon phase.
Life coach Kali Rogers says, “If you notice a shift in patience that could be a sign your partner isn’t happy with your compatibility.” Any couple can get annoyed with one another, but if things range into a territory that makes you uncomfortable, then they’re probably thinking about leaving.
It’s often the case that if someone’s sensitive to very trivial chores – like not emptying the dishwasher, for example – it’s a sign that they’re actually a lot angrier about something else. The key to fixing this is to stay calm and, the next time it comes up, ask your SO what the real issue is. Once you get to the root of the problem, that’s when you can start solving it.
If they like to talk about “my” rather than “our” future plans, that can normally be a big red flag. A truly committed partner will always see you with them in the next two, five, or ten years.
Former Newlyweds Expert for About.com Francesca Di Meglio adds, “If you don’t discuss the future, your spouse is no longer expecting to be with you for the long term or he’s simply not looking forward to it.”
If they’re dodging that subject, that signals that they’re probably not in it for the long-term. To help this, it’s a good idea to discuss how you feel about your future. Maybe take them to meet your parents, or go on a long vacation. That will definitely show your SO that you’re serious about the relationship and perhaps will help them consider you as a part of their future, too.
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