. How many times did you feel like your partner doesn’t show the same love as you? Many issues can affect your relationship life and can make your partner to love you less. According to psychologists, love can sometimes disappear even in the strongest relationships. So that’s why, whenever you feel like your partner doesn’t […]
How many times did you feel like your partner doesn’t show the same love as you?
Many issues can affect your relationship life and can make your partner to love you less.
According to psychologists, love can sometimes disappear even in the strongest relationships.
So that’s why, whenever you feel like your partner doesn’t love you like before, it is better to talk and define the problem.
Scroll down to see which are some important signs your partner doesn’t love you unconditionally.
Which Are 3 Signs Your Partner Doesn’t Love You Unconditionally?
If your partner is happy and receptive to your affection only when you’re spending time with them, then you might have a partner whose love has conditions.
“When it comes to coping with feelings of jealousy or insecurity, couples can cross the line from love to possessiveness. They often intrude on each other’s boundaries and disrespect each other’s inherent independence,” says clinical psychologist and author Lisa Firestone, Ph.D.
When people come together in a relationship, it’s meant to be two lives joining together as one. When one partner becomes frustrated or upset when they’re not getting all of the other partner’s attention, it can become a problem.
Everyone should be able to have their own lives, hobbies, interests and time spent outside of their romantic partner. Unconditional love will allow you to have time spent away from your partner, while knowing they’re happy as well.
Everyone has expectations of a relationship – how much time to spend together, how to handle finances, how to diffuse arguments. These are normal. However, if your partner has expectations for you as a person, it might be a sign, that their love is conditional on those expectations being met.
“Although, there is nothing wrong with having expectations in a relationship, having unrealistic expectations can put stress on, and ruin, any relationship. Invariably, unrealistic expectations are positively correlated to issues of power, manipulation and control,” says relationship expert Tarra Bates-Duford, Ph.D., MFT.
Unconditional love doesn’t put expectations on someone’s health, how much money they have, or the job they’re doing. A partner who loves you unconditionally will continuing loving you even when you’re sick, poor or looking for a new job. When things change, as things often do, unconditional love will always be there to support you.
If a partner’s love is conditional, you may find that they’re constantly trying to ‘change’ or ‘fix’ you in some manner, always implying that it’s for your own good, or that if you loved them you would do this for them. Unconditional love doesn’t hinge on the idea of having to change someone, or make them better in any way to continue to love them.
“The kinds of people who are into CHANGING the core essence of a human being can often be extremely charming entities who are also masters at manipulating you into thinking YOU NEED TO BE CHANGED,” says talk show host Zara Barrie.
When someone loves you unconditionally, you’ll find that you never have to make changes about yourself in order to continue getting them to love you. You never have to “work” for their love by changing some part of your personality. After all, they love you for who you are.
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