. Loving someone passionately means like you own the whole world. You just become the happiest person alive when he stares at you or talks to you. Is it true? But sometimes, having feelings for someone that you can’t have is very difficult. All the things around the room, reminds you of him. Even if […]
Loving someone passionately means like you own the whole world. You just become the happiest person alive when he stares at you or talks to you. Is it true?
But sometimes, having feelings for someone that you can’t have is very difficult.
All the things around the room, reminds you of him.
Even if you have never touched him, but just hugged him.
It feels like you have loved him many times and you have lived so many moments together.
But in reality, you didn’t.
So that’s how loving someone you can’t be with feels like.
Below you can find some great tips that will show you the right reactions when dealing with the situations like this.
How To Handle The Pain Of Loving Someone You Can’t Have?
When you’re spending time with someone that you love but can’t have, it can be tempting to ask for more. However, that will only lead to rejection and more pain. Instead, focus on enjoying the time that you do spend together. Focusing on the good times that you have means that you’ll have more good memories to draw on so that you’re not spending your time thinking about how badly you want to be with them.
Being this person’s friend is entirely possible. You can be there for them when they need it, but you also need to be able to know when something is too much. Learn to protect your feelings and set boundaries. If you find it hard to listen to them when they’re having troubles with their partner, it’s okay to set that boundary. Be there for them when you can, but also make sure that you’re taking care of yourself.
Sometimes, your heart doesn’t stop pining. In that case, it’s time to stop letting your heart rule your head. If you’re in pain and in unrequited love after months or years, it may be time to limit the contact that you have with this person.
Relationship and dating expert Ravid Yosef says, “… Leave them behind. Keeping the line of communication open, no matter how good of ‘friends’ you think you’ll be is only keeping the hopes of a relationship alive.”
It might be upsetting at first, but you may just be opening old wounds every time you’re together. It’s time to give them space to heal.
The best way to get over someone is to date other people. It’s important not to compare the new people that you date with your unrequited love. Not only will you feel bad, but it’ll make the person you’re dating have to live up to impossible standards. Enjoying people for who they are will open you up to all kinds of new relationships, though you may not fall in love with every new person you go out with.
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