. Usually, when you talk to someone who is older than 30, he/she tends to give several tips related to life. Is it true? According to psychologists, people after 30, feel older even if they aren’t. So that’s why after 30 they feel like they aren’t young anymore. But, don’t forget, life is short. Enjoy […]

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Usually, when you talk to someone who is older than 30, he/she tends to give several tips related to life. Is it true?
According to psychologists, people after 30, feel older even if they aren’t. So that’s why after 30 they feel like they aren’t young anymore.
But, don’t forget, life is short. Enjoy it until you still can.
Below you can find some habits you’ll regret not doing before you’re 30.
Which Are 5 Things You Should Pay Attention Before Turning 30?
1. TRAVEL TO FOREIGN COUNTRIES BY YOURSELF.
You have probably spent most of your school years in history or geography class reading about foreign countries, but this won’t give you the true experience of visiting the actual places. Travel can do so much for you – it helps you to think on your feet, become comfortable with new environments, gets you adapted to a variety of cultures, increases your knowledge of languages, expands your mind, and helps you make friends all over the globe!
Doing all of this alone will help you deepen your relationship with yourself. Before you turn 30, make it a point to do some solo overseas traveling – you will look back on all the memories and feel thankful for doing this for yourself.
2. BECOME PART OF A GROUP OR ORGANIZATION THAT YOU FEEL PASSIONATE ABOUT.
Nothing feels better than to become part of something bigger than yourself. If you have a certain issue that you feel passionate about, such as gay rights, racism, sexism, or something else that still plagues our world today, look online to see if you can find a group that combats these issues. While the world probably won’t change overnight from your efforts, at least you can feel good knowing that you made a contribution to bettering the world around you. Before you turn 30, reflect on your goals and see what organizations align with your dreams. Then, go out there and make a difference!
3. LEARN TO HAVE A HEALTHY RELATIONSHIP WITH YOURSELF.
Many industries in this world profit off of people who don’t really love themselves. Think about it – the beauty industry mostly profits off of women and men who somehow feel inadequate with their appearance and want a quick fix to make them feel better about themselves. The diet industry profits off of vulnerable people who have struggled with weight loss and/or simply getting healthy, and want a quick fix for slimming down. Advertisements urge us to buy this because we deserve it, eat this because we’ve had a long week and need to indulge, or do this because it will make us feel more confident. It never ends, but within yourself, you’ll find all the answers.
Loving yourself means to go within and accept yourself the way you are. Nothing outside yourself will ever match the love you can give to yourself.
4. SET MONEY ASIDE FOR EXPERIENCES, NOT MATERIAL ITEMS.
We have covered this topic before in one of our previous articles that you may have read. Science now proves that we don’t get as much satisfaction out of buying material items as we do buying experiences, simply because the items don’t come with memories. We create memories when we try new things, and people are more likely to bond over a shared experience than, let’s say, the TV they both just bought. Before you turn 30, try to use your disposable income on experiences that will stay with you for years to come.
5. DATE PEOPLE THAT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON.
We sometimes end up dating people that become toxic to our mental, emotional, and physical health, simply because we feel afraid to leave a relationship where we’ve felt comfortable for so long. However, comfort doesn’t always equate to happiness. Try to date people that will challenge you, change you for the better, and make a mark so deep on your life that your world can’t help but be overturned by them. A relationship should make you better, not bitter, so don’t ever stay in relationships that make you anything but happy.
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