. . Do you belong to a relationship that makes you sad and not happy? According to psychologists, many couples complain about unhappiness in their relationship which appears from constant mistakes. There are several mistakes which should be avoided in order to have a happy life. You should keep in mind that nobody’s perfect and […]
Do you belong to a relationship that makes you sad and not happy?
According to psychologists, many couples complain about unhappiness in their relationship which appears from constant mistakes.
There are several mistakes which should be avoided in order to have a happy life.
You should keep in mind that nobody’s perfect and everybody’s can make mistakes. But if these mistakes are frequent and make you cry and not smile, it’s better to try to find a solution.
Below you can find some mistakes men make in relationships.
Which Are 4 Mistakes Men Make In Relationships?
Women like to have safety and security. When we are afraid or insecure, they can smell it. Whether we are afraid of commitment, afraid of trying new things, or afraid of her, they will know and be turned off by it. Everyone is afraid of something, but the key is to not let the fear show through. Courage is not the absence of fear, but the act of overcoming fear. If we are courageous, they will see it and be comforted in that. Women want a hero who will fight at their side, not a coward who hides behind them.
Similar to target fixation, we men tend to invest in the places where we will see the biggest payoff. That may be work, hobbies or something else. We need to have a diverse portfolio, if you will. We need to invest time and energy in our partner as well as our work and recreational pursuits. If women feel that we are too interested in work or hobbies, they will feel neglected and unwanted. So, spread the love around.
Be bold and decisive. Women love a man who can make a decision. To them it is a sign of strength and responsibility. When we refuse to make a decision, we are avoiding responsibility for that decision. Don’t put it off; make that decision and live by it. Being decisive is a sign of stability and responsibility. Both of these things are desirable by women because it means a safe and stable family environment. A decisive man is a strong and stable one. Indecision is tantamount to weakness and instability.
Men are natural fixers. We like fixing things. If we see a broken item, it becomes an underachieved goal, and we must reach that goal if we can. Fixing something makes us feel like we accomplished something. We feel better about ourselves and the universe when things are fixed and put back into order. Women are not things to be fixed. We cannot fix the things they come to us with emotionally. They may seem to be in distress and bubbling over with emotions, and we naturally want to fix that situation and make it better and more ordered. They don’t come to us with this stuff for us to fix it; they just want to be comforted and validated. So don’t try to fix it; just listen and try to understand.
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