Did you know that no relationship is perfect? Usually, many people believe that some couples are very happy from their outside world. They perceive this opinion based on couple’s pictures, likes and comments. But in fact, they may be much more hurt than you. Unfortunately, some partners like to use their partner for different issues […]
Did you know that no relationship is perfect?
Usually, many people believe that some couples are very happy from their outside world. They perceive this opinion based on couple’s pictures, likes and comments.
But in fact, they may be much more hurt than you.
Unfortunately, some partners like to use their partner for different issues which road sends them to break up.
Which Are 4 Silent Signs Your Partner Is Using You?
1. YOU’VE NEVER MET THEIR FRIENDS
Who is your partner’s best friend? If you can’t picture their face or name them off the top of your head, chances are you’ve never been introduced to them. If your partner doesn’t feel like letting you into other parts of their life, it’s probably because “the less information you have about him, the easier it is for him to ghost you. If you don’t know who he hangs out with, or where he lives, or what his last name is, he can disappear like a phantom into the night,” says Frank on Cosmopolitan.
This is a red flag that they’re just using you for something, and that once you no longer serve that purpose, they’re going to split.
Partners do favors for one another. This is totally normal and healthy for couples to help one another out when they need it. But, the trouble arises when you’re the one doing all the work and your partner can never seem to be found when you need something from them. If they’re constantly asking you for favors and don’t seem to be capable of giving you the same treatment, then it’s a big red flag that they’re just using you.
Is your partner always texting you to hang out late at night? Are they only available when no one else seems to be? This is a big red flag. If you never see your partner during the day time or during a time when other people hang out, it’s probably because they’re only showing up when they have nothing better to do – or when they want something.
Certified sexologist and author Dr. Sonjia Kenya says, “He’s always trying to see you, but never makes plans to do anything outside the bedroom, because he only wants to see you in the bedroom. Unlike last-minute ‘Netflix-and-chill’ texts, planning ahead shows he’s making you a priority.”
If you can’t pin them down outside of the hours of 9 pm and 3 am, there’s probably a reason for it.
You may not know it, but you have your suspicions. If you have a gut feeling that your partner isn’t giving you all of their attention, and that they have other people they’re seeing, this is a huge warning sign that you’re being used. In fact, you might even be the “side chick” in this situation. Don’t let someone use you and cut ties as soon as you get the feeling that there’s more than one person that they’re hustling.
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