. Intelligent people are the ones who like to exercise their brain even they are resting in bed. But this doesn’t mean that intelligent people never make mistakes. According to psychologists, intelligent people have higher self-esteem and aren’t afraid to fail. It’s interesting how their communication changes from other random people. Below you can find […]
Intelligent people are the ones who like to exercise their brain even they are resting in bed.
But this doesn’t mean that intelligent people never make mistakes.
According to psychologists, intelligent people have higher self-esteem and aren’t afraid to fail.
It’s interesting how their communication changes from other random people.
Below you can find some things intelligent people avoid saying in public.
This one is going to be a source of discussion, and rightfully so.
Here’s our rationale: luck takes an outcome out of the person’s hands, and subjects it to outside influences or chance. Has anybody ever leveraged their aptitude to win the lottery? No. It’s luck.
Again, this phrase is subtle, often well-intended, and is certainly subjective to one’s own interpretation. But saying something along the lines of “I know you have what it takes,” or “You’ve got this in the bag” may bolster someone’s confidence to a higher degree than the notion of luck.
When someone seeks out your opinion, they do so expecting constructive feedback…any feedback. Saying “it doesn’t matter” – in a way – suggests that either (a) their situation is of no consequence to you, or (b) that taking the time necessary to provide feedback isn’t a priority.
Instead, be cognizant of the person’s situation. If pressed for time, suggest another where you can actively listen.
Examples: “You look great for your age,” or “For a woman, you’ve accomplished so much.”
As we all (or should) know, age and gender biases still exist. The chances are that the person you’re speaking to is well aware of such biases, and are offended by the very mentioning of them.
No qualifiers needed. Just compliment the person.
This phrase is bursting with conceit and superiority. How many of you read this phrase and imagine two elementary-aged kids playing in some sandbox or playground? (Honestly, this writer did.) The reason is that the phrase “I told you so” is childish and immature. No intelligent, mature adult should utter such words from their lips.
You may have warned someone of consequences of a certain action. Maybe they had it coming, whatever “it” is. Maybe they’re even beyond the point of constructive criticism.
Find some way to interact with someone who’s made a bad decision that doesn’t involve contempt. Maybe they need some help that we can’t provide. Consider your options and act (and speak) intelligently.
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